Divorce Mediation - The quick and Easy way to get divorced in San Clemente CA.
- A Kinder Way to Divorce
- Move Forward with Dignity
- Save Time, Money & Stress
- 5-Day Fast Mediation Process
- Led by Experienced Mediator
Divorce Mediation in San Clemente, CA
Resolvium helps couples in San Clemente and the rest of south Orange County settle their divorce without a court battle. We work with families from Talega and the Pier Bowl to neighboring Dana Point, Capistrano Beach and San Juan Capistrano, by video or in person.
Mediation gives the two of you a private, structured place to work through property, parenting and support with a neutral mediator. For the wider area, see our Dana Point divorce mediation page.
How Divorce Tends to Work in Orange County
Divorces from San Clemente are generally filed with the Orange County Superior Court, and family law matters are usually heard at the Lamoreaux Justice Center in Orange, a long drive for south county families. Settling the issues in mediation first can mean far fewer trips and far less cost.
- Property: California is a community property state and generally aims for an equal division of community property and debts.
- Children: parents work out legal and physical custody and a parenting plan. If both homes stay within Capistrano Unified, a schedule tends to be simpler.
- Support: child support and, where it applies, spousal support can be worked through together.
Rules and local practice change, so your mediator can tell you how this is likely to apply to you.
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San Clemente Divorce Mediation: Common Questions
Do we have to go to Orange?
Mediation sessions do not happen at the courthouse. You can meet by video or in person, and reaching agreement first usually means fewer court appearances later.
Is property always split 50/50 in California?
California generally aims for an equal division of community property, but what counts as community property, and how particular assets are handled, can be more involved. Your mediator can walk you through it.
What if we only agree on some issues?
Partial agreement still helps. Anything you settle in mediation narrows what is left.
Understand Your Divorce Costs Before They Add Up
This quick estimate shows how mediation can protect your finances while helping you move forward with clarity and confidence.
What Does Divorce Cost? Mediation vs. Court
Three questions. No email required.
Save about $27,000
by mediating instead of going to court
Roughly 90% less, and about 14 months sooner
Where the court money goes
- Attorney fees
- $19,500
- Discovery costs
- $5,400
- Court filing fees
- $3,600
- Experts and evaluators
- $1,500
- Email and phone support
- Billed hourly
- Total
- $30,000
Where the mediation money goes
- Estimated mediation fees
- $2,490
- Court filing fees
- $500
- Email and phone support
- Included
- Total
- $2,990
Free, 30 minutes, no obligation. Bring the numbers above and we will talk through your situation.
Court filing fees average around $500 and vary by jurisdiction. Estimated ranges are based on typical divorce cases we’ve seen; your actual costs depend on your situation.
How Our Fees Work
Divorce is difficult enough without the added stress of unpredictable costs. Here is how the fees are structured, so you can focus on making thoughtful decisions instead of worrying about hidden charges.
Initial Consultation
Your first consultation is a dedicated time to talk through your situation in a supportive, low pressure setting. We use it to understand your priorities, answer your questions, and explain how mediation works.
Ongoing Mediation Sessions
Sessions after the initial consultation are billed hourly, and how many you need depends on the complexity of your situation. The aim is to help you move forward efficiently and thoughtfully, without unnecessary time or cost.
Sharing the Cost
Most couples choose to share the mediation fees equally, which helps keep the process balanced and fair. Arrangements stay flexible and can be adjusted to your circumstances.
Education
- Pepperdine Caruso Law - MLS
- Pepperdine Caruso Law - MDR
- Eastern Kentucky University - Paralegal Certificate, Paralegal Science
- Georgetown College - Bachelor of Arts, Political Science & Government
Ben Casteel
San Clemente, California Divorce Mediator
Ben brings a well-rounded perspective to divorce mediation, drawing from his background in both real estate negotiations and high-stakes legal support. With years of experience helping clients through emotionally and financially sensitive situations, he’s known for staying focused, fostering clear communication, and guiding parties toward lasting, practical agreements.
From 2018 to 2022, Ben worked as a Realtor with Keller Williams OC Coastal Realty, where he built a strong reputation as a strategic negotiator. He consistently delivered successful results for clients, even in tough markets, thanks to his persistence, contract knowledge, and client-first approach.
Between 2022 and 2025, Ben served as a litigation paralegal at The Estate Lawyers, PC, supporting attorneys in complex Trusts and Estates disputes. He played an active role in mediations, preparing briefs, coordinating with opposing counsel, and helping clients navigate emotionally charged sessions with clarity and calm.
Ben’s strength as a mediator lies in his ability to explain complex issues in plain language while managing conflict with professionalism and empathy. His blend of legal insight and interpersonal skill makes him a steady guide for couples seeking resolution with dignity.
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