North Carolina

North Carolina divorce mediation, close to home

From Asheville to the Charlotte area, Resolvium mediators help North Carolina couples reach separation and divorce agreements together, in person or by video.

  • 3 local markets
  • 2 North Carolina mediators
  • Online statewide
Your mediators

Meet the mediators serving North Carolina

Two mediators who live and work in North Carolina.

  • Rendi G. Alexander, J.D., Resolvium mediator

    Rendi G. Alexander, J.D.

    Partner
    • Juris Doctor, Georgia State University
    • Master of Laws (LL.M.), The George Washington University
    Asheville and Western North Carolina
  • Anthony Cooper, Resolvium mediator

    Anthony Cooper

    Affiliate, Charlotte area
    • Master of Dispute Resolution, Pepperdine Caruso School of Law
    • Master of Legal Studies, Pepperdine Caruso School of Law
    Charlotte, Cornelius and Lake Norman
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What to expect

How divorce mediation often works in North Carolina

North Carolina handles separation a little differently than most states. These are the topics couples most often cover.

  • Separation agreement

    North Carolina generally requires spouses to live apart for a period before a divorce can be granted, and many couples use that time to sign a separation agreement. Mediation is a common way to reach it.

  • Property and debts

    North Carolina handles property through equitable distribution, often starting from an equal division that can be adjusted. Your mediator can help you sort out marital and separate property.

  • Parenting

    North Carolina addresses custody and visitation, and parents can agree on a plan that suits their children. Mediation gives you space to build it together.

  • Support

    Child support generally follows state guidelines, and North Carolina may also consider post-separation support and alimony. Your mediator can explain how these may apply.

Couples in the mountains and the Charlotte region can mediate together by video when distance is a factor.

The process

How mediation unfolds

  • Free case review

    A short, no-pressure conversation about your situation and whether mediation may be a good fit.

  • Mediation sessions

    You and your spouse work through each decision with a neutral mediator, in person or by video.

  • Your agreement

    Your mediator helps put what you agreed on in writing, ready for the next step with the court.

Did you know you have a choice?

Mediation is often the more affordable way to divorce

Many couples don’t realize they can settle their divorce outside the courtroom. This quick estimate compares what court and mediation could cost for a situation like yours.

What Does Divorce Cost? Mediation vs. Court

Three questions. No email required.

Children
Assets to divide
Where you stand
How you split the cost Person 1: 50%  ·  Person 2: 50%

Save about $28,000

by mediating instead of going to court

Roughly 93% less, and about 14 months sooner

Going to courtAbout $30,000
$15,000 each12-18 months
Mediating with ResolviumAbout $2,000
$1,000 each1 month

Where the court money goes

Attorney fees
$19,500
Discovery costs
$5,400
Court filing fees
$3,600
Experts and evaluators
$1,500
Email and phone support
Billed hourly
Total
$30,000

Where the mediation money goes

Estimated mediation fees
$1,490
Court filing fees
$500
Email and phone support
Included
Total
$1,990
Get my case reviewed

Free, 30 minutes, no obligation. Bring the numbers above and we will talk through your situation.

Court filing fees average around $500 and vary by jurisdiction. Estimated ranges are based on typical divorce cases we’ve seen; your actual costs depend on your situation.

Google reviews

What North Carolina clients say

Unedited Google reviews from our Asheville clients.

  • I had a very positive experience with the mediation services offered. Rendi provided a calm and structured environment for discussion, attentive and skillfully guided the conversation towards resolution. I felt heard and understood throughout the entire process. I would highly recommend their assistance for resolving disputes.
    Beth E.Asheville, NC · Google review
  • Rendi was an absolute gift during one of the hardest times of my life. She was kind, steady, and deeply compassionate, and she helped keep an incredibly emotional process calm, respectful, and human. Her guidance not only spared us unnecessary conflict, but also saved us an enormous amount of time, stress, and money. I’m truly grateful for the care and dignity she brought to every step, and I cannot recommend her highly enough.
    Mel N.Asheville, NC · Google review
  • I had an excellent experience working with Rendi at Resolvium Divorce Mediation. Rendi brings a rare balance of professionalism, empathy, and structure to what is often a very difficult process. She is an attentive listener, communicates clearly, and keeps discussions focused on practical, fair outcomes rather than unnecessary conflict. Her approach helps both parties feel heard while maintaining momentum toward resolution. If you’re looking for a mediator who is calm, organized, and genuinely committed to helping families move forward with dignity, I highly recommend Rendi and Resolvium.
    Matthew F.Asheville, NC · Google review
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FAQ

North Carolina divorce mediation questions

What is a separation agreement in North Carolina?
It is a written contract that often covers property, support and parenting while spouses live apart. Many couples reach one through mediation. Your mediator can explain what it may include.
Do we have to be separated before divorcing in North Carolina?
Generally, yes. North Carolina usually requires a period of separation before a divorce is granted. Your mediator can explain how that timing may affect your plans.
What is post-separation support?
It is temporary support one spouse may pay the other while issues are being resolved. It is often discussed in mediation alongside longer-term alimony.
Who mediates in Asheville and Charlotte?
Rendi G. Alexander, J.D., works with couples in Asheville and Western North Carolina, and Anthony Cooper works with couples in Charlotte and around Lake Norman.
How much does mediation cost in North Carolina?
Resolvium mediators bill by the hour, so the total often depends on how much you already agree on. The calculator above gives a rough estimate.

Ready to talk it through?

A free case review is a short, no-pressure conversation. Your mediator can tell you how mediation may apply to your situation.