North Carolina divorce mediation, close to home
From Asheville to the Charlotte area, Resolvium mediators help North Carolina couples reach separation and divorce agreements together, in person or by video.
- 3 local markets
- 2 North Carolina mediators
- Online statewide
Find your North Carolina mediator
Local mediators in the mountains and the Charlotte region.
Meet the mediators serving North Carolina
Two mediators who live and work in North Carolina.

Rendi G. Alexander, J.D.
Partner- Juris Doctor, Georgia State University
- Master of Laws (LL.M.), The George Washington University
Asheville and Western North Carolina
Anthony Cooper
Affiliate, Charlotte area- Master of Dispute Resolution, Pepperdine Caruso School of Law
- Master of Legal Studies, Pepperdine Caruso School of Law
Charlotte, Cornelius and Lake Norman
How divorce mediation often works in North Carolina
North Carolina handles separation a little differently than most states. These are the topics couples most often cover.
Separation agreement
North Carolina generally requires spouses to live apart for a period before a divorce can be granted, and many couples use that time to sign a separation agreement. Mediation is a common way to reach it.
Property and debts
North Carolina handles property through equitable distribution, often starting from an equal division that can be adjusted. Your mediator can help you sort out marital and separate property.
Parenting
North Carolina addresses custody and visitation, and parents can agree on a plan that suits their children. Mediation gives you space to build it together.
Support
Child support generally follows state guidelines, and North Carolina may also consider post-separation support and alimony. Your mediator can explain how these may apply.
Couples in the mountains and the Charlotte region can mediate together by video when distance is a factor.
How mediation unfolds
Free case review
A short, no-pressure conversation about your situation and whether mediation may be a good fit.
Mediation sessions
You and your spouse work through each decision with a neutral mediator, in person or by video.
Your agreement
Your mediator helps put what you agreed on in writing, ready for the next step with the court.
Mediation is often the more affordable way to divorce
Many couples don’t realize they can settle their divorce outside the courtroom. This quick estimate compares what court and mediation could cost for a situation like yours.
What Does Divorce Cost? Mediation vs. Court
Three questions. No email required.
Save about $28,000
by mediating instead of going to court
Roughly 93% less, and about 14 months sooner
Where the court money goes
- Attorney fees
- $19,500
- Discovery costs
- $5,400
- Court filing fees
- $3,600
- Experts and evaluators
- $1,500
- Email and phone support
- Billed hourly
- Total
- $30,000
Where the mediation money goes
- Estimated mediation fees
- $1,490
- Court filing fees
- $500
- Email and phone support
- Included
- Total
- $1,990
Free, 30 minutes, no obligation. Bring the numbers above and we will talk through your situation.
Court filing fees average around $500 and vary by jurisdiction. Estimated ranges are based on typical divorce cases we’ve seen; your actual costs depend on your situation.
What North Carolina clients say
Unedited Google reviews from our Asheville clients.
I had a very positive experience with the mediation services offered. Rendi provided a calm and structured environment for discussion, attentive and skillfully guided the conversation towards resolution. I felt heard and understood throughout the entire process. I would highly recommend their assistance for resolving disputes.
Rendi was an absolute gift during one of the hardest times of my life. She was kind, steady, and deeply compassionate, and she helped keep an incredibly emotional process calm, respectful, and human. Her guidance not only spared us unnecessary conflict, but also saved us an enormous amount of time, stress, and money. I’m truly grateful for the care and dignity she brought to every step, and I cannot recommend her highly enough.
I had an excellent experience working with Rendi at Resolvium Divorce Mediation. Rendi brings a rare balance of professionalism, empathy, and structure to what is often a very difficult process. She is an attentive listener, communicates clearly, and keeps discussions focused on practical, fair outcomes rather than unnecessary conflict. Her approach helps both parties feel heard while maintaining momentum toward resolution. If you’re looking for a mediator who is calm, organized, and genuinely committed to helping families move forward with dignity, I highly recommend Rendi and Resolvium.
North Carolina divorce mediation questions
What is a separation agreement in North Carolina?
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Ready to talk it through?
A free case review is a short, no-pressure conversation. Your mediator can tell you how mediation may apply to your situation.