Illinois

Illinois divorce mediation, close to home

From Chicago and the northwest suburbs to the Metro East, Resolvium mediators help Illinois couples reach divorce agreements together, in person or by video. Mediation can often take less time and create less conflict than a contested court case.

  • 5 local markets
  • 2 Illinois mediators
  • Online statewide
Your mediators

Meet the mediators serving Illinois

Two mediators with local roots, one in the Chicago area and one serving the Metro East and southern Illinois.

  • Deborah Hawkins, J.D., Resolvium mediator

    Deborah Hawkins, J.D.

    Partner, Southern Illinois
    • Juris Doctor, cum laude, Saint Louis University School of Law
    • Mediation Certificate, Cornell University
    Belleville, Edwardsville and southern Illinois
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What to expect

How divorce mediation often works in Illinois

Every family is different. These are the areas most Illinois couples talk through in mediation.

  • Property and debts

    Illinois divides marital property through equitable distribution, which often means fair rather than equal. Your mediator can help you separate marital from non-marital property and consider options together.

  • Parenting

    Illinois uses allocation of parental responsibilities and parenting time instead of the word custody. In mediation you can agree on decision-making and a parenting schedule that fits your children.

  • Support

    Illinois calls spousal support maintenance, and child support generally follows an income-shares approach. Your mediator can explain how these may apply to your family.

  • Your written agreement

    Many Illinois couples put their terms into a marital settlement agreement and a parenting plan submitted to the court. Your mediator can explain what that step may involve.

Illinois courts often refer parenting disputes to mediation, so many couples choose to begin here.

The process

Three steps, at your pace

  • Free case review

    A short, no-pressure conversation about your situation and whether mediation may be a good fit.

  • Mediation sessions

    You and your spouse work through each decision with a neutral mediator, in person or by video.

  • Your agreement

    Your mediator helps put what you agreed on in writing, ready for the next step with the court.

Did you know you have a choice?

Mediation is often the more affordable way to divorce

Many couples don’t realize they can settle their divorce outside the courtroom. This quick estimate compares what court and mediation could cost for a situation like yours.

What Does Divorce Cost? Mediation vs. Court

Three questions. No email required.

Children
Assets to divide
Where you stand
How you split the cost Person 1: 50%  ·  Person 2: 50%

Save about $28,000

by mediating instead of going to court

Roughly 93% less, and about 14 months sooner

Going to courtAbout $30,000
$15,000 each12-18 months
Mediating with ResolviumAbout $2,000
$1,000 each1 month

Where the court money goes

Attorney fees
$19,500
Discovery costs
$5,400
Court filing fees
$3,600
Experts and evaluators
$1,500
Email and phone support
Billed hourly
Total
$30,000

Where the mediation money goes

Estimated mediation fees
$1,490
Court filing fees
$500
Email and phone support
Included
Total
$1,990
Get my case reviewed

Free, 30 minutes, no obligation. Bring the numbers above and we will talk through your situation.

Court filing fees average around $500 and vary by jurisdiction. Estimated ranges are based on typical divorce cases we’ve seen; your actual costs depend on your situation.

Google reviews

What Illinois clients say

Unedited Google reviews from our Chicago and Schaumburg clients.

  • Going through a divorce is rough, but Tim took one less worry away. He was able to help sort out my finances, and help iron out our custody scheduling. He was efficient yet thorough. So happy we are able to come to agreeable term without an attorney.
    Pauline R.Chicago and Schaumburg, IL · Google review
  • Tim was very patient with our timeline and keeping us on track. His experience and knowledge was helpful bringing things to the table we hadn’t even thought of as part of divorce. Would recommend
    Kelly B.Chicago and Schaumburg, IL · Google review
  • Tim was extremely helpful navigating our mediation process, as chaotic and stressful the nature of it is. He is very easy to talk to and seeks fairness between parties. Would definitely recommend.
    Emilio C.Chicago and Schaumburg, IL · Google review
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FAQ

Illinois divorce mediation questions

Do Illinois courts require mediation?
Illinois courts often send parenting disputes to mediation, and many couples choose it for the whole divorce. Your mediator can explain how that may apply in your county.
What does allocation of parental responsibilities mean?
It replaces the word custody in Illinois. It covers who makes significant decisions for your children, while parenting time covers the schedule. You can decide both together in mediation.
Do you mediate in both Chicago and southern Illinois?
Yes. Tim Dowling works with Chicago-area couples, and Deborah Hawkins, J.D., works with couples in Belleville, Edwardsville and southern Illinois. Sessions can also happen by video.
How is maintenance handled in mediation?
Maintenance is often one of the topics couples work through together. Your mediator can explain the factors that may matter and help you explore options that work for both of you.
What does divorce mediation cost in Illinois?
Resolvium mediators bill by the hour, so the total often depends on how many issues you need to resolve. The calculator above can give you a rough estimate for a situation like yours.

Ready to talk it through?

A free case review is a short, no-pressure conversation. Your mediator can tell you how mediation may apply to your situation.