Connecticut

Connecticut divorce mediation, close to home

Resolvium helps Connecticut couples in Fairfield County and beyond reach divorce agreements together, in person in Stamford or online anywhere in the state.

  • Stamford office
  • Online statewide
  • Free case review
Local offices

Find your Connecticut mediator

A Fairfield County office, with video sessions anywhere in Connecticut.

Your mediators

Meet the mediators serving Connecticut

Your Connecticut mediator and Resolvium’s principal mediator.

  • Rendi G. Alexander, J.D., Resolvium mediator

    Rendi G. Alexander, J.D.

    Partner
    • Juris Doctor, Georgia State University
    • Master of Laws (LL.M.), The George Washington University
    Stamford and Fairfield County
  • Tim Dowling, Resolvium mediator

    Tim Dowling

    Principal Mediator
    • Pepperdine Caruso School of Law
    • Northwestern University, divorce mediation and dispute resolution
    Principal mediator, available by video in every state we serve
What to expect

How divorce mediation often works in Connecticut

These are the topics Connecticut couples most often settle in mediation.

  • Property and debts

    Connecticut courts divide property through equitable distribution and can consider nearly everything either spouse owns. Mediation lets you decide together what feels fair instead of leaving it to a judge.

  • Parenting

    Connecticut looks at legal custody and physical custody, and joint arrangements are common. You can build a parenting plan in mediation that reflects your children’s routines.

  • Support

    Child support in Connecticut generally follows state guidelines, and alimony can depend on many factors. Your mediator can explain how these may apply and help you explore options.

  • Your written agreement

    Your decisions are often written into a separation agreement that the court reviews as part of the divorce. Your mediator can explain what that review may look like.

Many Fairfield County couples choose video sessions to fit mediation around commutes and work.

The process

How mediation unfolds

  • Free case review

    A short, no-pressure conversation about your situation and whether mediation may be a good fit.

  • Mediation sessions

    You and your spouse work through each decision with a neutral mediator, in person or by video.

  • Your agreement

    Your mediator helps put what you agreed on in writing, ready for the next step with the court.

Did you know you have a choice?

Mediation is often the more affordable way to divorce

Many couples don’t realize they can settle their divorce outside the courtroom. This quick estimate compares what court and mediation could cost for a situation like yours.

What Does Divorce Cost? Mediation vs. Court

Three questions. No email required.

Children
Assets to divide
Where you stand
How you split the cost Person 1: 50%  ·  Person 2: 50%

Save about $28,000

by mediating instead of going to court

Roughly 93% less, and about 14 months sooner

Going to courtAbout $30,000
$15,000 each12-18 months
Mediating with ResolviumAbout $2,000
$1,000 each1 month

Where the court money goes

Attorney fees
$19,500
Discovery costs
$5,400
Court filing fees
$3,600
Experts and evaluators
$1,500
Email and phone support
Billed hourly
Total
$30,000

Where the mediation money goes

Estimated mediation fees
$1,490
Court filing fees
$500
Email and phone support
Included
Total
$1,990
Get my case reviewed

Free, 30 minutes, no obligation. Bring the numbers above and we will talk through your situation.

Court filing fees average around $500 and vary by jurisdiction. Estimated ranges are based on typical divorce cases we’ve seen; your actual costs depend on your situation.

FAQ

Connecticut divorce mediation questions

Can we settle our Connecticut divorce without a trial?
Mediation happens outside the courtroom, though a Connecticut divorce is still finalized through the court. Many couples find that arriving with a complete agreement makes that step simpler.
Does Connecticut split property 50/50?
Not automatically. Connecticut uses equitable distribution, which often looks at each spouse’s circumstances. In mediation you can agree on a division that works for both of you.
Who is the Resolvium mediator for Connecticut?
Rendi G. Alexander, J.D., works with Connecticut couples through our Stamford office and by video.
Can mediation help with alimony?
Yes, in many cases. Alimony is often one of the topics couples work through in mediation, and your mediator can explain the factors that may matter.
How much does mediation cost in Connecticut?
Resolvium mediators bill by the hour, so the total often depends on how much you already agree on. Try the calculator above for a rough estimate.

Ready to talk it through?

A free case review is a short, no-pressure conversation. Your mediator can tell you how mediation may apply to your situation.