California

California divorce mediation, close to home

Resolvium mediators work with couples across California, in person in several communities and online anywhere in the state. Mediation can help you settle parenting, support and property decisions together, often faster and with less conflict than going to court.

  • 6 local markets
  • 4 mediators serving California
  • Online anywhere in the state
Your mediators

Meet the mediators serving California

Neutral, trained mediators who help both of you reach decisions you can live with.

  • Ben Casteel, Resolvium mediator

    Ben Casteel

    Affiliate, Dana Point
    • Pepperdine Caruso School of Law, Master of Dispute Resolution
    • Pepperdine Caruso School of Law, Master of Legal Studies
    Dana Point and South Orange County
  • Tim Dowling, Resolvium mediator

    Tim Dowling

    Principal Mediator
    • Pepperdine Caruso School of Law
    • Northwestern University, divorce mediation and dispute resolution
    Affiliated with the Los Angeles City Attorney's Dispute Resolution Program
  • Rendi G. Alexander, J.D., Resolvium mediator

    Rendi G. Alexander, J.D.

    Partner
    • Juris Doctor, Georgia State University
    • Master of Laws (LL.M.), The George Washington University
    Has worked with Orange County clients alongside Kevin
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What to expect

How divorce mediation often works in California

Every divorce is different. These are the topics most California couples work through in mediation.

  • Property and debts

    California is a community property state. In many cases, what you earned or acquired during the marriage is treated as shared, while some property may be separate. Your mediator can help you sort out which is which and how you might divide it.

  • Parenting

    California often looks at legal custody (decision-making) and physical custody (where children live) separately. In mediation you can build a parenting plan around your family's schedules, holidays and routines.

  • Support

    Child support in California generally follows a statewide guideline, and spousal support can depend on a range of factors. Mediation gives you room to talk through options, and your mediator can explain how the rules may apply to you.

  • Your written agreement

    The decisions you reach are often written into a marital settlement agreement that can be submitted to the court as part of your divorce. Your mediator can walk you through what that step may look like.

Mediating online can help when spouses live in different parts of the state, from the Central Coast to Gold Country.

The process

Three steps, at your pace

  • Free case review

    A short, no-pressure conversation about your situation and whether mediation may be a good fit.

  • Mediation sessions

    You and your spouse work through each decision with a neutral mediator, in person or by video.

  • Your agreement

    Your mediator helps put what you agreed on in writing, ready for the next step with the court.

Did you know you have a choice?

Mediation is often the more affordable way to divorce

Many couples don’t realize they can settle their divorce outside the courtroom. This quick estimate compares what court and mediation could cost for a situation like yours.

What Does Divorce Cost? Mediation vs. Court

Three questions. No email required.

Children
Assets to divide
Where you stand
How you split the cost Person 1: 50%  ·  Person 2: 50%

Save about $28,000

by mediating instead of going to court

Roughly 93% less, and about 14 months sooner

Going to courtAbout $30,000
$15,000 each12-18 months
Mediating with ResolviumAbout $2,000
$1,000 each1 month

Where the court money goes

Attorney fees
$19,500
Discovery costs
$5,400
Court filing fees
$3,600
Experts and evaluators
$1,500
Email and phone support
Billed hourly
Total
$30,000

Where the mediation money goes

Estimated mediation fees
$1,490
Court filing fees
$500
Email and phone support
Included
Total
$1,990
Get my case reviewed

Free, 30 minutes, no obligation. Bring the numbers above and we will talk through your situation.

Court filing fees average around $500 and vary by jurisdiction. Estimated ranges are based on typical divorce cases we’ve seen; your actual costs depend on your situation.

Google reviews

What California clients say

Unedited Google reviews from our Irvine and Orange County clients.

  • Mr Johnson made a difficult process feel manageable. He was calm, fair, and incredibly effective at helping us communicate and reach a balanced agreement. His professionalism and compassion truly stood out. I’m very grateful for his guidance and would highly recommend him to anyone.
    Benjamin C.Irvine and Orange County, CA · Google review
  • I worked with Kevin Johnson and Rendi Alexander in the mediation process of my divorce. They both displayed exceptional professionalism and had a thorough understanding of the mediation process. Kevin wielded an exemplary level of empathy and patience at all stages of there process and helped to alleviate my anxiety and concerns regarding the outcome. I would highly recommend using Resolvium and Kevin to bring quick closure to what is normally a lived changing issue for everyone involved.
    Henry N.Irvine and Orange County, CA · Google review
  • I highly recommend Resolvium Divorce Mediation. The process was clear, professional, and handled with genuine care. They made a difficult situation feel manageable, and I appreciated how efficient and respectful everything was from start to finish. The mediator was neutral, supportive, and helped us reach an agreement without unnecessary conflict or stress. If you’re looking for a fair and affordable alternative to court, Resolvium is an excellent choice.
    Usman A.Irvine and Orange County, CA · Google review
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FAQ

California divorce mediation questions

Can we mediate if we live in different parts of California?
Yes, in many cases. Resolvium mediators often meet with couples by video, so you can mediate from home even if you and your spouse live far apart. Your mediator can talk through what may work best for you.
Is a mediated agreement binding in California?
Mediation itself is a voluntary conversation. The agreement you reach is often written into a marital settlement agreement that can be submitted to the court, and once the court approves it, it typically becomes part of your judgment. Your mediator can explain how this step may work in your situation.
How does community property affect mediation?
Because California is a community property state, much of what couples earn or acquire during the marriage is often treated as shared. In mediation you can look at your assets and debts together and decide how to divide them, rather than leaving that decision to a judge.
Do we need attorneys to mediate?
Many couples mediate without attorneys, and some choose to have an attorney review their agreement before signing. Not every Resolvium mediator is an attorney, and your mediator can talk you through your options.
How much does divorce mediation cost in California?
Resolvium mediators bill by the hour, so the total often depends on how many issues you need to work through and how much you already agree on. The calculator above can give you a rough estimate for your situation.
What if my city isn't listed?
Resolvium works with couples throughout California. If your city isn't listed, you can still book a free case review and mediate online.

Ready to talk it through?

A free case review is a short, no-pressure conversation. Your mediator can tell you how mediation may apply to your situation.